Thursday, June 26, 2014

Murcia: My last autonomous community and Spain's best kept secret

My last weekend in Spain was spent finishing up my goal of visiting all 17 autonomous communities of Spain. (Granted, the blog is still missing updates on both the Canary Islands and Navarra, but I promise I did visit them all!) Once life calms down a bit (if life calms down a bit?), I’ll update you on my experiences in Tenerife and in Pamplona. But for now, let me tell you about Spain’s hidden gem: MURCIA.

Two weeks ago I played jeopardy with my students for our last class together. The 500 point answer for “Amber in Spain” was, “the only autonomous community in Spain Amber has yet to visit” and the correspnding question was, “What is Murcia?” Few students got it right on the first try and one class of students failed to answer correctly at all, instead realizing they had forgotten that Murcia even existed. When I gave them the answer, they reacted with, “¡Ayyyyyyy! ¡Pero es que no hay ni puta alma en Murcia!” (This translates to: “Ahhhhh... but there isn’t even a f*cking soul in Murcia!” Excuse my French. I mean, Spanish… swear words have much less weight - if any weight at all - in Spanish culture.)

My friend Carmen told me not to go… it wouldn’t be worth it to miss out on my last weekend in Madrid and didn’t I want to leave something to come back to? No Spaniard (except for the ones form Murcia) said a single positive thing about the place until I told them I was going to the beach. Then they halfheartedly conceded, saying it couldn’t be too bad to go to the beach for a few days.

Boy, were they wrong. Perhaps it helped that my expectations were EXTREMELY low, but honestly, Cartagena blew me away. I’d like to promote Spain’s well-kept secret, hidden between the Costa del Sol of Andalusia and the the Costa Blanca of Valencia.

Our hotel alone was enough to want me to stay forever. I got into Cartagena earlier than Erica on Friday, giving me time to hang out in the city… or in the hotel room. The slightly overcast, windy weather kept me from wanting to sit on a terrace all afternoon; so, after lunch and a walk around the city, I headed back to the hotel, plugged in my laptop, and started blogging away in a big comfy chair situated right in front of the balcony.

The best fried eggplant I have ever had

A sculpture giving tribute to the victims of terrorism

School’s out for the summer!

I didn’t even have to leave my room to enjoy the smell of the sea and a view of the port!

Or turn around and check out the main plaza

On Saturday, Erica and I headed out to La Manga (The Sleeve), a peninsula about 30 minutes away from Cartagena where we could enjoy both the Mediterranean Sea and the Mar Menor (Minor Sea) by walking just 8 minutes across the peninsula.

Along the way we met a young woman from Arizona who had been living in Murcia for 4 years. Politely we managed to ask, “Uhhh… why?” and she fondly recounted her summers with a family friend who is from Murcia which lead from one thing to another and ended with her current state of being 5 months pregnant with her and her Murcian husband’s little boy.

She married into Murcia but she loves it like home, talking about how there is no need to go on vacation because they have paradise right around the corner. She also know the bus stops like home, which was helpful for us since not a single bus stop was labeled on the stops or on the map.

After we successfully got off the bus, we first checked out the Mediterranean Sea and enjoyed the free entertainment of watching a group of young Spaniards attempt to throw a football… the first people I have ever seen throw a football in public worse than me.

Walking along the beach

There’s nothing like beach hair!

After a few hours on beach, we left in search of food and were happy to find that southern prices were indeed as low as remembered them. €7.50 each for an entire menú!

Mmmmmmmmm

With our tummies full, we headed back to the beach for our siesta… but this time we walked 5 minutes West and settled down on the Mar Menor.

An older couple going for a stroll

Looking at mainland Murcia

Reading… typical.

We soaked up as many rays as we could until our thirst got to us and we headed out for a Coca-Cola at one of the restaurants right off the beach. Then, around 18:40, we headed to the bus stop to catch the 19:00 bus. The non-existent 19:00 bus. We waited and wondered and double checked our map and doubted whether or not the bus would stop at all of the stops or only the one at the end of the peninsula. Erica decided to check with a store clerk to see if we were at an acceptable stop and after confirming we were, we realized that there was a faded dot next to the 19:00 bus. “What does that mean?” I asked and then finally saw the legend that this little dot meant “Sólo domingos” (Only Sundays). Oops.

We had almost an hour to kill until the next bus so we sat down and had a granizado (a slushy that, in Spain, is consumed as much, if not more, by adults as by children) while I wrote out my last Spanish postcards.

Lemon slushy!

When we finally made it back into Cartagena, we showered, rejoiced in our lack of sunburns (Thank you, SPF 50!) and headed out in search of tapas. The restaurant recommended to us by our Arizonan friend was closed but by the number of people crowded around the bar down the street, we figured we couldn’t go wrong. And we didn’t. Tapas of ensaladilla rusa (Spain’s potato salad), solomillo al chimichurri (pork loin with tomato pepper sauce), berenjena rellena (stuffed eggplant), mini-hamburguesa (You can figure this one out), and pollo al curry (Hint: pollo = chicken) filled us up and allowed us to enjoy the delicious gastronomy of the South for the low dinner price of €15… total. Erica and I considered moving.

Good food is nothing without good conversation but we had that as well… with the Murcian couple who was standing next to us at the bar. We started off talking about the bar’s food and continued on to conversations about what we were doing in Spain, our thoughts about Murcia, and more conversation about Spain’s gastronomical experiences. It wasn’t the first, though it might be the last time (at least for a while) that a Spaniard told me, “Se comen muy bien allí” (They eat very well there). Through conversation with them I discovered I had somehow missed out (?) on trying sangre frita (fried blood), the woman’s favorite food as a child. I’ll consider adding it to the to-do list for my next visit.

On Sunday morning, Erica and I woke up and headed down for our second day of the breakfast buffet (complete with fresh ginger-carrot-pear juice, a yogurt bar with pumpkin seeds and papaya chunks, ensaimadas, jamón serrano and Manchego cheese) before checking out the sights in the city of Cartagena.

First, we headed over to the Roman Theater, one of the best preserved Roman theaters in the world.

From the top

Cheese it!

Then we walked to the Roman forum and an old Roman house, which the woman at the Roman theater talked us into visiting because of the €9 student deal for all three. It was totally worth it, since we happened upon an hour long tour through the Roman Forum with an engaging guide. The Roman house on the other hand (described as “preciosa” by the woman working at the Roman theater), was a short visit… within 5 minutes we had entered, looked at the foot tall brick walls showing us the layout of the house, appreciated the oldness of the bricks we were surrounded by, and left. It made us even more grateful for the guide at the forum.

Part of one of the walls that was reconstructed by the archeologists in the Forum

The pieces of their next puzzle

After we finished our sightseeing, we walked around the city and noticed the huge difference between the main streets and the run-down buildings just off the beaten path. There was a beauty in the mix of old and new, though the old woman who saw me taking a picture of one of the run-down buildings was not amused.

Pretty old wire balconies mixed with scaffolding

As I took the picture, she stood behind me and scolded me for taking a picture of “an edificio tan feo… ¡hay muchos otros que son más bonitos justo allí!” (“such an ugly building… there are many other buildings that are much prettier right there!).

We also saw quite a few mini alters and floats waiting to be put to use later in the afternoon.

I suppose it is too heavy and too obvious to run off with

Right off Calle Mayor

Then, just before we left, we enjoyed one more delicious meal amidst the smell of the sea.

Tomato, boquerones, cheese, olives and pepper salad

Stuffed mushrooms

Paella

As you may have guessed from the photos, Murcia passed my important test. Se comen muy bien allí.

Well Spain, it’s been great getting to know you. Even up to my last journeys, you haven’t disappointed me. I’m going to miss every last bit of you.

Much love,
Amber

Friday, June 20, 2014

Caminewbs de Santabingo... more commonly referred to as the Camino de Santiago

This past weekend, Lauren and I decided to participate in an (extremely) abridged version of the Camino de Santiago, a pilgrimage route through northern Spain. I had done a few (okay, TWO) days worth of el Camino with Mark and Annette one of my first weekends in Spain, but life got busy over the past two years and I never made it back. Until now.

Lauren and I were far from expert peregrinos (pilgrims). In fact, we decided we could have created a hashtag about our shortcomings, #caminewbs, and had a pretty decent twitter feed going. What we lacked in preparedness, however, we made up for in creativity. Early on, Lauren came up with a unique way of peregrino watching: making a bingo board to fill in with our sitings along the way.

Hence, our adventures as the Caminewbs de Santabingo.

Unfortunately, we never got bingo. But we did get: Danish flag, sheep, twins, guten tag, hiking in sandals, camping, PDA, and < 15. Not too shabby!

Now that we're on the same page, let me start from the beginning...

On Sunday morning, Lauren and I arrived to Santiago bright and early, thanks to our 6:30 AM Ryanair flight. (Oh, Ryanair... I will miss your prices, but not your flying experience.) Shortly after, Matt (another Fulbrighter) rolled in on his night bus and joined us for our day's adventures.

After a leisurely breakfast alongside peregrinos who had finished the previous day but were still accustomed to waking up at the crack of dawn, we headed to the plaza in front of the cathedral to do some people watching and to show off our Fulbright España gear. After all, Fulbright España just won the Príncipe de Asturias award (similar to the Nobel Prize for Spaniards) for its international cooperation. Represent!

 Cheese it! This hat got Lauren into a conversation about Fulbright with a stranger within the first 30 minutes!

The only baseball hat that I have ever gotten that almost fits me... it must be child sized.

After some quality people watching (and some terrible street performer observing), we decided to check out the inside of the cathedral. And since it was Sunday, we did so by attending mass. It was difficult for me to engage since mass has a quite a few calls and responses that I don't know in English, let alone in Spanish. However, it was clear from the priest's approach to his message that he is used to visitors from different countries and different walks of faith and I appreciated the chance to hear him speak.

After mass, we headed out for lunch and I finally tried pulpo a la gallega (polbo á feira in Gallego) in the region of Spain it comes from! It was an achievement, though in the end I wasn't overly impressed. Perhaps it's just not my favorite way of eating octupus.

I do really like the plate though...

In the late afternoon Lauren and I said goodbye to Matt and headed for the bus station, where we took a 40 minute bus ride to the beginning of our camino journey, the small town of Arzúa.

Reality check: We then spent 11 hours over the course of two days walking back to Santiago de Compostela. #Caminewbs, YES.

When we arrived in Arzúa, we went to an albergue (hostel, but with more beds per room) that I had called earlier in the day. The price per bed was €10 so we figured it was a great option. We didn't realize that €10 meant it didn't have sheets (#caminewbs)... which we would soon discover were necessary for nights in northern Spain. Live and learn.

After showing us our beds, the hostel worker didn't take our money, instead encouraging us to shower immediately and pay later. Neither Lauren nor I had the guts to tell her that we hadn't walked that day... or at last not for more than a half an hour at a time when we were leisurely exploring Santiago. So we sheepishly went to our rooms, put our backpacks away, and awkwardly returned 10 minutes later with the money and our almost empty pilgrimage accreditation book to get it stamped. (Looking back on things, maybe we looked dirty?)

I say almost empty because I did in fact have a few stamps from my walk from Logroño to Santo Domingo. And Lauren also had a stamp because when she bought her accreditation in Santiago de Compostela (the END of the camino, #caminewbs), the worker asked her if she wanted the stamp. Still drowsy from our early morning flight, Lauren said yes. Thankfully, the hostel worker didn't bother to ask us about our lack of stamps or why Lauren's only stamp showed that she had arrived to the last city.

After paying for the hostel, we sat down to an early dinner so that we could go to bed shortly after. It was during dinner that we realized that with restaurants serving menú for lunch AND dinner, we definitely wouldn't be going hungry.

Pueblo prices: 2 plates, a drink, bread, coffee AND dessert for €9.90?!

When Lauren and I went to bed right after 10:00 (The time for lights out in albergues!), we tried not to draw too much attention to the fact that we were huddling under our still-unused towels and wearing our jackets... or in my case, a cardigan sweater (#caminewbs). We set our alarms for 6:45 and went to bed excited about being well rested for our first (and second-to-last) day of walking.

Well, little did we realize that 6:45 was way too late. The Frenchman who snored next to me all night was up and gone by 5:30 and many others were also gone by the time I finally got out of bed at 6:15. I checked on Lauren and we decided that there was no use in trying to attempt another half hour of sleep. When we were both out of our beds, one of the older peregrinos walked over and turned on the lights. Yep, apparently we were the LAST people still in our beds at 6:15... #caminewbs.

We had the bathroom to ourselves as we brushed our teeth and put our jackets back on to face the chilly morning weather. We managed to make it out of the hostel before a few of the peregrinos and contentedly set off, starting off our day with a beautiful sunrise.

 It's been a while since I've seen a sunrise!

Land really is the best art.
- Andy Warhol

As we walked, I paid attention to my surroundings in a way that I rarely do in Madrid. I noticed the spots on the inside of flowers and the shadows that create their own beautiful image on the sidewalk. I smelled "green" and remembered that such pristine nature is a wonderful gift that needs to be appreciated and protected (by Lauren, who picked up peregrinos' trash whenever she saw it). The two days were a wonderful way to disconnect from city life and relax amid the emotionally-draining experience of moving away from Madrid.

These were novel the first hour... then I realized after seeing them EVERYWHERE that they must be one of Galicía's more common flowers.


After about 20 kilometers of walking and a few snack breaks, we arrived to Pedrouzo, our day's destination. On our way into the pueblo we found this nice sign...

Take what you need: To be heard, luck, inspiration, play, happiness, peace, beauty, silence, a break, breath, passion, optimisim.

It was a very nice motivator, but at the moment we arrived, what Lauren and I really needed were sheets. We had to shower that evening and didn't think our wet towels would keep us warm very well.

So, we decided that it was probably worth upgrading. We went big and rented a room in a pensión (similar to a B&B), where we had our own room (aka NO snoring) and a private bathroom with the best shower that either of us had experienced in the entire country. To us it was definitely worth the €22.50 per person, though some might call us pijas.

The owner of the pensión, surveying his advertisement methods, asked us how we had found his place. From his expression, it seemed he had never heard, "Well, we were walking past and it looked like it would have sheets." We then had to explain that we didn't have sheets the previous night and had used our towels. We blamed our unpreparedness on the fact that it was our first official day of vacation and we were a bit disorganized.

Owner: Wait, this is your first day of vacation?
Amber and Lauren: Yep!
Owner: But how then did you...
Amber and Lauren: Oh yeah, the 31 day camino that we are supposedly on the 30th day of... nope, we started today.
Owner: Today?
Amber and Lauren: Yeah...
Owner: So you only walked today? Okay...

I don't think he was judging us too much.

Enjoying our luxury lodging

Our adventures in Pedrouzo weren't too much to write home about... we ate lunch out in our grungy clothes (the camino is the only time that is socially acceptable), napped, read, and watched the Germany vs. Portugal World Cup game (Ronaldo: "I would like to be 110% fit but I am 100% fit and that should be enough to help the national team"... Guess not!). 

Then, since we weren't blown away by our lunch, we went grocery shopping for dinner. After smelling pizzas in the bar where we watched the game, we decided a frozen pizza would be easy and would hit the spot. However, we hadn't taken a good look at the kitchen facilities. Though it was fully equipped, it was Galician equipped and the oven looked like this...

Yep, a wood oven.

We quickly decided it wasn't worth warming up the entire house in mid-June just to make a frozen pizza, so we got creative and made our pizza in a frying pan.

#CAMINUBES.

It was terrible. We got distracted chatting and eating with the other guests, Germans, who were kind enough to share their bread, cheese, and cherries with us. While we attempted to eat the pizza, the Germans chuckled at our pathetic dinner, a Dutch guest came down to ask what the terrible smell was, and we accepted that we were going to have to take full advantage of the older German peregrinos' generosity with their leftovers. After all, our pizza was black more than halfway through the crust. I don't think they believed me when I said that normally I'm a pretty good cook.

That event opened the conversation up and after about 30 minutes, they were roaring in laughter at our one day camino experience. One of the peregrinos showed us pictures of his different albergue stays (One with 130 people in an old chapel... imagine the acoustics of that snoring!) and we admitted to all of the failures that we had been keeping under wraps.

Then around 10 PM, one of the workers came out and told us that we had to keep it down... our group was being a bit too rambunctious. So we said goodbye and expressed our hope that we would run into them the next day. But they told us they were the "relaxed Germans" and weren't planning on starting until 9 AM the next day. They didn't seem to believe us when we said we would be walking by 6:45-7:00 AM. "We'll see..." they said. To which Lauren responded, "Or you won't! Because we'll be gone!"

And gone we were, following the little yellow arrows, stopping for orange juice and people watching, and chatting away as we enjoyed walking another 20 kilometers through Galicia.

We don't know where life will lead us post Fulbright life, but for now we'll just keep following these little yellow arrows we keep finding!


A sculpture on our way into Santiago

Back in the city!
 
Post-camino we checked into a hostel with paper sheets (we couldn't decide if that counts as sheets or not... probably not...), showered, and went back to the plaza to watch the peregrinos arrive. Unfortunately, we never ran into the Germans again, but we did meet up with María, the girl who had the farm in Galicia that I WWOOFed at earlier this year. It was a wonderful surprise to meet up once again and say goodbye. Or hasta luego.

In the main plaza of Santiago de Compostela

Well, once again I caught the camino bug. It was an incredible two days spent in a unique culture and community of people that I would love to invest more in at some point in life. Hopefully in one of my visits to Spain (because I AM visiting in the future!) I will get the chance to do a much longer part of the camino or even the whole thing... with sheets.

Much love from Spain,
Amber

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Going to the chapel and we're gonna get married...

Okay, to clarify for all of my fans who don't actually know me (in case you exist), I am not part of the we in the title of this post. But the Dixie Cups song was running through my head so many times during Ali's "Wedding Week" that I couldn't resist using it as the title!

Obviously, wedding week was busy with last minute preparations and celebrations. Between my arrival Sunday evening and my departure Saturday afternoon, I helped with writing name tags, designing quite a few signs, decorating the church, setting up the reception hall, throwing the bachelorette party, rehearsing for the wedding, attending the rehearsal dinner, experiencing all that the wedding day entails, and tearing down my mom's and sister's 9 months of hard work afterwards! Post-wedding, I also managed to sneak in 2 games of Dominion with mom and the big brothers :)

It was far from vacation (which is how all of my Spanish co-workers described it), but it was definitely a week that I will happily remember for the rest of my life. After all, who wouldn't be excited about welcoming a man THIS excited about Newsies into the family?

Waiting outside the Newsies theater in NYC, May 2012

Mike had already become part of our family, playing countless strategy games with my brothers over the holidays, making my niece blush, schmoozing with my mom, and showing love and kindness to my sister throughout life's twists and turns. But it was time to make it official.

Mike is one of the most supportive, godly young men I have met. I'm glad he will always be there for my sister to lean on!

A mandatory element of wedding preparations was the bachelorette party and for the sake of not embarrassing Ali, I won't reveal too many details of what that entailed. But I can tell you that we did lots of blindfolding (which in turn made Ali a bit carsick... oops!), made fake confirmation calls to a stripper, bowled, ate, painted our nails, and enjoyed some quality girl talk. It was a great girls' night and it was wonderful to see my sister hanging out with some of her best friends from all over the United States.

The whole gang at Houlihan's

Doing our nails in the log cabin 

Then, of course, there were the wedding morning festivities... 

 
Josh and B finishing breakfast while the girls started getting dressed. Look at that smile!

The SUPER excited flower girl getting her hair done!

The bridesmaids all done up and hanging out before putting our dresses on. (No, contrary to one of my co-teacher's beliefs, these were not our dresses!)

Once we got dressed, we started the lengthy photography process... 

All of the bridesmaids watching as they took pictures of the beautiful bride

The adorable flower girl

The bride with all her bridesmaids, acting "natural"

But it was totally worth it, because it led to beautiful photos like these ones:

The newlyweds trekking through the weeds

 
Stunning.
  
Like I said before, I will definitely remember Ali's wedding week for the rest of my life. It was wonderful to be able to celebrate alongside Ali and Mike after watching them grow up together over the past four years. They are an inspiring young couple who is seeking after God first and above all. Although there are so many unknowns in their lives, they are open to adventure and to God's unexpected and unimaginable plans. I'm so proud that I have such wonderful people as my siblings.

Though I must admit I struggled with twinges of loss throughout the wedding process (Of course I'm not only referring to the fact that Ali moved all of her clothes out of her closet in Hershey this week! ;)), I was also able to use the past few months to reassess where I was putting my hope and how I was planning my future.

I realized that in the back of my mind, I had still hoped that the dream that Ali and I had once imagined would come true: We would live together and work together in her first years after college, teaching in the same district and sharing clothes, late night chats, and meals. I had hoped we could, as adults, relive those morning drives from home to HHS, singing along to Justin Timberlake's "What Goes Around Comes Around". When I made the decision 6 years ago to go to college 10 and a half hours away from home, I hadn't anticipated how much I would miss life with my mom and sister. Time spent living life together during the past few summers has become incredibly precious and I had looked forward to the possibility of a future where we could reclaim our day-in and day-out relationship.

Our one and only "World's Largest" find during our summer road trip to Texas, 2010

At the Trevi Fountain in Rome during our summer vacation through Europe, 2013

But in that plan that I had, I hadn't accounted for the twists and turns and unexpected surprises that life would sent us.

Ali changing her major away from Elementary Education.
Me packing up and heading to Spain to teach.
Ali and Mike getting married.
Me applying for a job in China.

Of course, there are million details and experiences that come with and among and between those events. And though they have lead us to places we perhaps didn't imagine, we would never want to change them. Ali and I have lived, we've learned, and we've become people who are eager to see what God has for us next.

What God has for us.
Not what my plan says.
What God's plan is.

And when I realized that I had once again made the foolish mistake of believing that my plan was better than God's plan, I realized also how wrong I was in thinking that Ali and I were moving in opposite directions. Yes, we will be living on different continents and no, we will not be able to share clothes, but we will be living together in God's truth and we will be sharing God's love with one another. We can move forward, not by moving in together, but by simultaneously jumping feet first into our respective next chapters of life. We can exchange stories of life in a new city, with new roommates (hers more permanent than mine) and trade new recipes (hoping that we can each find the necessary ingredients in our respective countries). Ali and I won't go for many runs together in the next two years, but daily we will both "run with endurance the race God has set before us" (Hebrews 12:1).

Ali, "Every time I think of you, I give thanks to my God.  I always pray for you, and I make my requests with a heart full of joy... and I am sure that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on that day when Christ Jesus comes back again. It is right that I should feel as I do about all of you, for you have a very special place in my heart. We have shared together the blessings of God... God knows how much I love you and long for you with the tender compassion of Christ Jesus. I pray that your [and Mike's] love for each other will overflow more and more, and that you will keep on growing in your knowledge and understanding. For I want you to understand what really matters, so that you may live pure and blameless lives until Christ returns. May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation -- those good things that are produced in your life by Jesus Christ -- for this will bring much glory and praise to God" (Philippians 1:3-11).

Yes, I admit it. I shed tears on Ali's wedding day. Tears of joy for her new life with Mike and tears of loss for the moments that I didn't fully appreciate having such a wonderful friend across the hall from me. This definitely isn't where I expected either of us to be in June of 2014, but it's better than I could have ever imagined. So let's keep living life, expecting God to show up without putting limits on him with our meager expectations. Congratulations to the bride and groom; Mike, if I have to share my little sister with someone, I'm glad it's you!  

Love from Spain,
Amber 

"If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together... 
there is something you must always remember. 
You are braver than you believe, 
stronger than you seem, 
and smarter than you think. 
But the most important thing is, even if we're apart, I'll always be with you."   
- Winnie the Pooh